Being the family CTO I get all the questions like: “What phone should I buy?” or “My nephew wants video games, is GTA ok for an 8 year old?” I found it was easier to save all this stuff to one page and now I just send around a link. Good luck with your holidays! If you are giving or getting anything cool please tell me!
Home Theater
Such a fun project if you watch movies and have the space for a screen. This has a whole page dedicated to it: Check out the version 2 update!
I like to watch movies on Blu-ray, I think it’s more fun. Here’s a whole page on why Blu-ray is the new vinyl.
Books
Solve for Happy is a fantastic book that I would recommend for everyone. If you’re a reader please connect with me on GoodReads!
Runners need to read Born to Run and ChiRunning.
Phones
I’ve had my family on Apple for so long now that it’s not worth considering anything else (running Boomer Anti-virus made me Apple 4 life/sanity).
People I’ve talked to with an iPhone Duo say it’s not worth the $2,000+ price tag.
I try to go magsafe as much as possible just because nobody in the family does cord management well enough for my OCD. Nice upgrade to the MagSafe Popsocket this year. I also have a few Magsafe Batteries charged and by the door. This one from Anker is not their fastest but $40 is a great price point. This one is expensive at $80 but has two cables and can also charge Apple Watch so it’s a nice emergency kit to have.
Headphones and Earbuds
Not a lot of changes in the last few years here. If you like AirPods that is an easy way to go. Beats Fit Pro are still my earbud champions but have been upgraded to the Powerbeats Fit. Beats uses Apple hardware so all of the easy, rock solid connection that AirPods have.
One trick here – if your kids are like mine and lose/destroy earbuds on a regular basis, check out Unclaimed Baggage. I have a pile of Jabra 75t and just keep buying single left ear replacements on eBay. They get great sound and I’m not losing my mind at $30 a set.
If you’re the kind of person who doesn’t lose earbuds and wants amazing sound I can vouch for the Status X as a good set.
The short story with headphones is you have to try them. It doesn’t matter what they cost if they hurt your head after 10 minutes. Of course that makes it much more difficult to buy a gift so at least make sure you’ve got return options. Bose is great if you want to support Boston and noise cancelling is your number one priority. Or Sony has a long history of excellence with these.
Speakers
This is a topic with a big learning curve. All I want is good music in the house. It’s based in the kitchen because I love to listen while I cook.
Every holiday season our warehouse club has a crazy deal on a larger bluetooth speaker. Two years ago it was a Klipsch One, last year a Harmon Kardon Onyx. These kinds of speakers are great for simplicity. Also, if you can wait until after the holidays they keep marking them down until they are gone and those can be savings you’ll never find anywhere else on new, or not stolen gear. I’ll update this when I find out what this year’s is.
In general, my experience with smart speakers is that they are not that smart. Last time I was shopping customers were in an uproar about a Sonos software upgrade that broke a lot of things so I tried Amazon’s offerings. Connection problems, drops, just all kinds of headaches. From there I ran a pair of Klipsch The Sevens, which are dumb speakers but have an amp so you can use normal stereo gear, or bluetooth. They ran $700 and were great for a year until the amp inside of them died. Klipsch just sent me a new amp when I told them I can do basic repairs but I fixed them and flipped on eBay because I didn’t feel like rolling the dice on them dying again in one year. Klipsch drove that home at the same time announcing that the next generation of that speaker would have an amp built by Onkyo, and would cost 2x the previous model.
At this point I went to the Wirecutter and they said the Victrola Tempo is the best bookshelf speaker and at $250 I thought it was worth a shot.

They do sound great, and it helps that I still have a Klipsch Subwoofer that I bought off eBay for under $200 for The Sevens. It’s not cheap but if you want music that shakes the house, you’ll get it. And because I can’t avoid still trying to get the smart speaker thing to work I’ve added a WiiM Mini which connects the speakers to Wifi so it can work with smart home things. The single best use of this is I can fire up a Spotify playlist from my phone, but it will be running on the WiiM so if I leave the music keeps going and it’s not like Bluetooth where if I get a text or start playing a video, the music is disrupted for everyone.
Music
Nothing new this year, I continue to be all in on Spotify which has just added both lossless files, and the ability to mix. Spotify – please add me, I’ve got a bunch of holiday and other playlists, feel free to send me your info. Carin loves Spotify on CarPlay.
Video Games
My son and I play Fortnite regularly because we have lots of friends who do. My screenname is Phildunphey247 if you are over there. H has also been impressed with James Bond First Light so that’s worth checking out.
Car
CarPlay is required for me, we have some older vehicles and for $140 Carpuride is an easy solution. If you’re not afraid of doing some auto wiring it’s an easy way to add a backup camera for vehicles that don’t have one.
Our town has a bunch of deer and bear you’ll come across on the road at night. Also a lot of rural streets with no shoulders so I’m a big fan of switching fog lights to LED for better visibility (same with backup lamps). I would upgrade the headlights but it’s not legal to put an LED bulb in a housing made for halogen. Burning out the eyes of oncoming drivers is bad for everyone so do the homework to see what’s legal.
For the Home
Monitors
Aura frames are the best digital picture frames. The app is easy enough that all my family can use it.
Kitchen/Cooking/Food
As someone who does a show called Marketing Over Coffee, I have an Owala custom mug for my morning iced, which is a quad espresso over ice that I make in a Bialetta Moka Induction. I brew Cafe Bustelo unless I want to splurge and get Blue Velvet from No. 6 Depot.

I enjoy cutting veggies with my Milk St. Nakiri.

The coolest thing I got in 2025 was an upgrade to an induction range, it beats gas and electric. Our fridge also died and the new one makes craft ice, which I consider hipster DB, but would now not give up.
Apple Watch
Get a better band: Their Shark Clip band can get wet, easily adjusts to any size and comes in a bunch of crazy colors if you want more than their basic black (which also looks great.) The Shark Leash double velcro closure is also perfect fit but I don’t recommend it if you live in a cold climate where you’ll be wearing sweaters or jackets that will catch the velcro. The Spidel is for dressing up, but for comfort and swimming/sauna, Shark Clip is my daily go to.
Sports
I’ve always run with a watch. After I was let down by my Apple Watch screwing up me running the Falmouth Road Race because of weak GPS I upgraded to a dual GPS watch by Coros. My Coros Pace 3 is mostly sold out but check out the Coros Pace 4.
Strava is the social media app for Biking, Running and a bunch of other sports. I really love how you can support the people you know in their workouts instead of doomscrolling other social networks. Meet me over there!
Indoor Bicycle Racking Simulator – Zwift. Last year I could no longer stomach the idea of another half hour on a treadmill or my Miami Vice era Cross Country Ski Nordic Track. The answer was an excercise bike (Schwinn IC4) which connects to Apple TV. Using the movie room projector mentioned above I now race through the virtual alps againts riders from all over the world. I will probably do an entire post about it, but tell me if you have questions and check out Zwift.
Running: I tried all kinds of arm and wrist straps and then realized the best way to carry your phone (and a bunch of other stuff) is with a FlipBelt. Works great for travel too.
I like Maui Jim sunglasses for the beach/running and they are great for boating/fishing. They now come in readers.
Make ski goggles (or any other glasses) bifocals for less than $25.
Runners need to read Born to Run and ChiRunning.
Shaving, Bathroom, Personal Care
As an old man I’ve spent years on the quest for the perfect shave. Turns out it doesn’t exist. Like most things in life there are trade offs. I’ve settled on Gilette Labs, it’s not just that they are from Boston, their tagline is no lie, it is the best shave a man can get. If you are willing to give up being super smooth a Henson Safety Razor is much better for the environment.
This razor travel case is fantastic.
In Italy I discovered La Roche Posay Sunblock. What we get in the US is not as good as what they have in Europe but it’s still fantastic.
I’m addicted to sauna, that’s another post, but the Sauna / beach bags by SeaBags of Maine are made from recycled sails and look fantastic.
Happy Po. Toilet paper is poor use of resources.
Good for Anyone
My life runs on Apple AirTags. Where’s my wife? Where’re the kids? Where’s the car? Where’s the keys? Where’s the remote?
Make the AirTag a 10 year tag.
One screwdriver to rule them all.

My other easy suggestion here is a gift certificate to a favorite restaurant or business. Support your local community and send one less thing to the landfill.
If nothing has helped here and you need more ideas, check out last year’s gift guide.
Good luck this holiday season!!




















































